It became clear
that if we were to feel emotionally secure
among grown-up people,
we would have to put our lives
on a give-and-take basis . . .
We saw that we would need
to give constantly of ourselves
without demands for repayment.
When we persistently did this
we found that people were attracted to us
as never before.
What if I were caring rather than judgmental?
P A C E = Positive Attitudes Change Everything.